For the Family 
• Share your feelings with family members, by talking or in writing.
• Reach out to other survivors through support groups.
• Go for individual counseling. 
• Give yourself and those close to you time to sort through feelings.

With Friends 
• Let go of negative emotions. 
• Embrace friends who support your recovery.
• Take the initiative with those who have been uncomfortable with your illness. 
• Allow friends to re-enter your life. 
• Sever friendships that don't work anymore.
• Mourn your losses.